Showing posts with label 一份礼物. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 一份礼物. Show all posts

Sunday, December 30, 2018

四年後,愛是什麼?

剛結束了兩年的戀情,感覺很踏實。雖然說我原本就是一個可以非常瀟灑的人,對感情也可以如此的冷靜和理智處理還是頭一回。在說服自己去接受這一個結果之前,那過程必然是痛苦和難受的。那一夜我好煎熬,一整夜輾轉難眠,就因為憑著我的第六感告訴我會有大事情發生!

結果,一切答案都在隔天揭曉了。我接受這樣的結果,我也不想要去改寫,就接受這一切都是上天最好的安排。我尊重他的決定,可是我絕對不接受那些分手的理由,因為太虛假了。他說了出來也只是想要讓自己舒服,不那麼難受,不那麼愧疚。但對我來說,這些種種的藉口和理由絕對不會讓我覺得他是一個偉人,我只會更加會看不起他罷了!

四年後,我回看之前寫過對【愛】的定義,現在我又有新的發現。我對【愛】這個詞,有了更深入的了解和領悟。

愛一個人,我會因為他喜歡我也喜歡,因他討厭而討厭。
愛一個人,粗枝大葉的我會因為他而變得細心溫柔。
愛一個人,我的焦點都會在他的身上,把每一字每一句都記在心裡。
愛一個人,我會毫不客氣的貢獻他,絕對不會表表面面隨隨便便,玩過關的遊戲。
愛一個人,我一看見他心就會融化,一整天疲憊的心立馬恢復正能量滿滿。
愛一個人,不管何時何地只要他需要我,他想見我,我都會把自己給挖起來奔到他面前。
愛一個人,儘管他喋喋不休說了一大堆,我還是很欣賞這樣的他,覺得他特別的有魅力。
愛一個人,儘管他總是狗嘴裡吐不出象牙,但我知道那就是我所認識的他,我愛他。
愛一個人,我想要讓他開心、幸福、快樂,當這個世界上最幸福的男人。
愛一個人,即使在過程中遇到各種各樣的挑戰和困難,也許會感到不安、不舒服、會受傷、很糾結,但依然堅持抓著彼此的手,一起去面對、一起去經歷、一起去挑戰、一起去學習和成長。

我會問自己,他有因為我陳妍芝而變得越來越好嗎?
因為我想把最好的自己獻給最棒的他!

兩個人在一起就一定是要互相影響,讓彼此因為有我而變得越來越好,這是良性的成長。

愛,有很多種形式。最近看了『比悲傷更悲傷的故事』,其實蠻有感觸的。在我的十六歲遇見了他,就是我這一輩子的最幸運的事。我們一起去冒險,做了很多框框外的事,讓我有了今天的我。我是個非常幸福的小孩。

愛,它無所不在。就像呼吸一般,每一分每一秒我都需要,離不開。
你給的愛太多太多,也太深太深,足以影響和改寫了我的一生。在未來的日子裡,還要請你多多擔待和多多包涵。

致心照不宣的愛。

Thursday, April 4, 2013

三月尾的生日趴

Harlow...我回来了!!!今天我回头一看才发现,原来三月已经过完了,现在已经是四月了啦。。我的部落格确实放了还蛮久的假期呐~不可以再偷懒了哦T___T

感觉上整个三月我都很忙,尤其是三月尾的时候。那时候的生活还真的是多姿又多彩,又忙又累,但是我过得很充实很开心^^ 到目前为止除了新年以外,这个三月是我party最多和喝酒最多次数的一个月份啊!>___< 不过都是朋友的生日,要庆生咯。这个月我的钱包也是大出血啊!!要把钱统统给赚回来XD

之前第一个是庆祝Michaelの生日,然后第二个是我亲爱的嘉倩老婆仔生日(3月29日)~~哇咔咔!然后,第三个是亲爱的Elyn生日(3月31日)。

PART 1

在3月28日晚上,我们三个人(我,Mei Wen和嘉倩)先去了Jalan Ampang的SouLED Out享用晚餐,然后再去Marini's on 57密其他的姐妹们喝红酒。


 第一次来到这一间分店,环境很优雅。

这是我亲爱的寿星婆,嘉倩老婆仔 

 我 

 Mei Wen 


很靓女的寿星婆

我们の美食


三人大合照♥ 

喜欢这后面的背景,可以看见KLCC双峰塔哦^^ 

享用完晚餐,我们就转场去Marini's on 57。这个地方还蛮高贵下的~其实我想去很久了!!终于都有这个机会去!!超开心。。=D


 里面的环境。。^^

 结果没有红酒,变成了Gold Label。。

 Jia Theng帮公主戴皇冠^^

Evelyn。我。Ginny。寿星婆。Mei Wen。Jia Theng
我就是这样の爱她


8个美女帮忙庆生哦^^

 Happy 22nd Birthday to my Janice Chian babe!! I love you =3=

PART 2

上个星期六(3月30日),我帮另外一位好朋友Elyn庆祝生日。话说,每一年我们Diplomaの好朋友们都会一起帮忙庆生,但是今年却例外了。因为其他人都很忙,不得空。。唯有我比较得空啦>__< 呵呵

然后,我就带了这一位美女来到了Publika The Bee享用午餐。今年她的生日我没有买蛋糕,但是我却煮了几粒红鸡蛋和买了一件很漂亮的七彩裙子送给她当做生日礼物。



 






















 气质型的Elyn美女


 The environment...

The Bee Big Breakfast 

 Smoked Salmon Penne


The monkey zai also want to eat the Big Breakfast XD

Happy 22nd birthday to my dear Elyn!! Always stay pretty ^^

话说回来,今天是4月4日。有谁知道这是什么大日子吗?哈哈哈。。其实,今天是清明节啦=P 但是对我们AFA科系的同学们来说,今天是考试大日子啊!!这几天我也在忙读书,然后应付考试。头脑好累啊!!需要来一个够力够力冬眠来补一补我的精神XD

久违的图书馆。。我又回来了=P


好累啊!!睡觉时间到。。zZzzzZZZzzzz
晚安啦~~~~

Saturday, January 12, 2013

Happy 22nd Birthday to Me ❤

It's early morning 1.40am now. Seriously, I am really tired already =_= Tml my schedule is so damn pack!! Gonna meet my friend at 11am and then back hometown for cousin's house warming party. Until now, I still not yet pack my luggage yet LOL

Tonight, I want to blog about my birthday post. I need to be more hardworking now. If not after sometimes, I sure will be very lazy to blog about it again. Btw, there is really too much accumulated posts I still haven't blog them out. /_\ I need more time to blog about it. Plus my life everyday is so COLOURFULLLL!!! It is busier than my study life lolll >_< I gonna get myself some rests after get back to hometown.

Let's back to the main topic. Actually, I was quite surprised with the plan on my actual date. HAHA. Cause my 22nd birthday was officially celebrated with my diploma's friends. Once, we were really close friend but now we all are in diff courses, so we are not that CLOSE anymore. BUT, I am really feel so touch when they said want to celebrate for me ❤ THANK YOU for the birthday treats ya!! Love you girls so much =)

Harlow ^^ I am officially 22 now =D
I was so happy coz I no need to drive on that day! Teehehehe. 
On the way to KLCC...

We celebrated the birthday at Chili's Grill & Bar Restaurant, Suria KLCC. This is my second time dine at Chili's Grill & Bar Restaurant. HOHO!!

My pretty babes Hui Sin and Elyn 

Sweetie Kah Yan babe and Me 

January Baby in the house

Our FOODSSS!!!





So many FOOD on table!! Yummmmmm =D

Learning to balut all the ingredients into that "ROTI" lolll

 Processing...

Busy eating...

Pls just ignore my messy hair =)
Food still in processing... 

Tadaaa!! Done =)
But I not really like to eat this "ROTI", coz it made me feel so FULL.

 I'm so HAPPY cause finally I can blow the candle!!! 
It is the birthday brownie from Chili's.






 Yeah Yeah!! Blowing the candle =DDD

 Cherly is eating the cheery LOL

The piccas with my girlssss!!! Lovesss xxx

 Selca pic with my girls ^___^V
We went to Neway Timesquare had our second round after the birthday lunch =)

 Kah Yan and Me

 Elyn and Me

 Hui Sin and Me


Really thanks a lot to the girls for the birthday celebration!! =) I wish we can still hangout often no matter how busy we are in the future. Just keep in touch and friendship never end. FRIENDSHIP FOREVER!!! 

After back from the celebration, at night my ah gor (big bro) celebrated for me again. And this was really a SPECIAL CELEBRATION EVER LOL! He and the gf (Jasmine) bought me 3 pieces of cakes and then we celebrated at Mamak -_- SO SPECIAL, RIGHT???


The cakes from RT Pastry House. 

 Although it was celebrated at Mamak but I was still feel happy of it.
Because I can blow candles and make wish again!!! =D

Birthday girl with her birthday cakesss at Mamak.
Thank you ah Gor ya!!! Love you so much 
And I love the presie u bought for me!! Teehehehee =DDD

Last but not least, I am going to thank someone else. He was trying so hard with his effort to make me a birthday card. He is just so sweet =) THANK YOU, Jay Lau.

 What a colourful and creative birthday card, right? =P

Finally end of my birthday post.
Good night ZzzZzz....